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Jessica DeYoung

June 28, 2025

Sharing your story opens doors to healing, freedom, and purpose.

Sharing your story becomes a bridge from shame to freedom, guiding you toward healing and God's purpose for your life, and inviting others into hope today.

Sharing your story opens doors to healing, freedom, and purpose.

I know this feels risky. Sharing your story can feel like stepping into a bright room after years in the dark. But there is power when we tell what God has carried us through. And the moment we choose to speak with honesty and grace, healing begins to thread through our life. You and I, we can move from surviving to thriving by learning how to tell our truth in a way that invites others into hope.

Let me tell you a simple truth I’ve seen again and again: when we share our story with intention, we invite God to multiply our small, honest steps into a bigger story of grace. It’s not about revealing every detail or chasing attention. It’s about offering a reliable, hopeful thread that others can grab onto. And yes, it can feel vulnerable. Still, our vulnerability can become a template for courage for someone else who needs it today.

In this space, we’ll walk through the made-whole arc of storytelling. Shame fades when truth meets grace. Freedom grows when we set healthy boundaries. Purpose awakens when the story becomes a bridge to serve others. And we do all of this with love, intention, and a steady gaze toward Christ who makes all things new.

Revelation 12:11 (CSB) reminds us how victories come. It says they triumphed over him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony; they did not love their lives so much as to shrink from death. Our testimonies are not weapons of vanity but invitations to witness God’s faithfulness. When we share our story well, we invite others into the same room of hope where healing begins and purpose takes root.

What does it mean to share your story well?

The phrase sharing your story carries weight. It is not a performance, and it isn’t a performance of perfection either. It is a truthful, concise account of where we started, what God did, and how we choose to move forward with Him today. You can begin with a single sentence in your quiet time and grow it into a rich, life-giving narrative in your own time and space.

Why people hesitate

Fear is real. Sometimes we fear judgment, or we worry about how others will react. Sometimes we fear our own vulnerability and what it might expose about us. But here’s the thing: when we choose to tell the truth with the right boundaries and the right heart, fear loses its grip. We become a lighthouse rather than a lighthouse-chaser chasing attention. We stay anchored in love.

How to start small

Begin with a quiet confession to God, then a trusted friend, and finally in a setting that feels safe. Write a brief version of your story first. Then practice aloud. Your voice matters, and your pace matters. Start with what God has already done, not with what you wish was different. The rest can follow, slowly, with grace.

The Made Whole arc: from shame to freedom to purpose

Think of a three-part arc that mirrors our growth in Christ. We begin in a place of shame or confusion, we move toward healing as truth reshapes our understanding, and we step into purpose when our story becomes a resource for others. This is the heart of made-whole storytelling.

Part 1: Acknowledge and name what’s real

We don’t pretend the pain didn’t happen. We acknowledge it and invite God into it. Naming what hurts helps us take back control in a way that honors the journey God has us on. You can identify the moment you realized you were not alone and the small steady steps you took toward healing.

Part 2: Lean into grace and truth

Grace gives us space to be human. Truth gives us direction. When we combine both, our story gains clarity. We learn to say what mattered, what we learned, and how God showed up in moments that felt shaky. This is where healing begins to feel possible for others who listen with hopeful hearts.

Part 3: Turn toward purpose

The most unexpected gift in sharing your story is how it becomes a doorway for others. Your testimony can equip someone else to persevere, to forgive, or to try again. It becomes a personal ministry of encouragement that multiplies beyond what you could imagine.

Practical steps to share your story with wisdom

  • Pray for discernment before you speak and seek permission when needed
  • Keep your core message simple and anchored in your experience and God’s truth
  • Set boundaries about what you share and with whom you share it
  • Highlight the turning points where God met you, rather than dwelling on pain
  • Invite others to respond with compassion, not judgment

Here’s a friendly pattern to follow: brief context, the turning point, what you learned, and how you’re walking forward. You don’t have to have all the answers. You just need to tell the honest part and trust the rest to God.

We must also remember that our stories are not only about us. They’re about our communities, our churches, and our families. When we share with love and wisdom, we invite others into a shared journey of renewal and growth. We can model how to hold space for vulnerability while staying rooted in faith and truth.

Living made whole: turning testimony into purpose

Made whole storytelling is not a private victory. It is a public invitation to participate in God’s work. It invites us to show up with courage, to listen well, and to encourage others who are in the middle of their own turning points. When we share your story with clear boundaries and a hopeful heart, we enable a domino effect of healing across our circles.

How does this translate to daily life? You become a person who uses your experiences to help others. You mentor a younger woman in your church, you support a friend who is walking through hard news, you volunteer in a program that helps others find their footing after loss. Each of these is a form of storytelling in action, a living testimony that God is at work in real, ordinary places.

In the end, our goal is not fame but faithfulness. We want our stories to point toward Jesus, to show how grace meets us in the everyday, and to invite others into a space where healing feels possible. The arc of shame to freedom to purpose becomes a blueprint for others who want to know if transformation is real and available for them too.

Putting it into practice today

Start with this simple exercise: write a one-minute version of your story that includes a turning point and a blessing you’ve received. Read it aloud to a trusted friend. If you feel confident, share it in a small group that values grace and honesty. If not, keep refining and growing your confidence. God meets us in every small step toward truth.

Remember you are part of a larger family of believers who cheer you on. We all have a role to play in this movement of healing and purpose. Our shared journey helps others discover their own turning points. We are not alone in this; we are a community moving forward together.

You are invited to begin this path

Let today be the day you choose to walk toward healing by sharing your story with wisdom and care. You can start small and grow into something more expansive. The key is to begin with honesty, extend grace, and trust God with the rest. And as you do, you’ll discover that you are not defined by past pain but shaped by God’s promise for your future.

Final reminder

Your story matters. It can light the path for someone else and bring them closer to the hope we share in Christ. So, take a breath. Step into the room with gentleness and truth. And know that your made-whole storytelling can be a powerful force for healing, freedom, and purpose in our community.

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