Finding Peace When Confused and Trusting God Even When Life Feels Unclear
How many of you have ever felt stuck in the fog? Not a literal fog (although, I’ve been there driving in the early morning before the sun rises), but the kind where life doesn’t look clear and the next step feels risky. Maybe you’re trying to find peace when confusion keeps swirling, and every answer seems just out of reach. You’re not alone, friend. Let’s talk about what it looks like to trust God in those uncertain spaces—the ones where answers don’t come quickly, but peace, somehow, still can.
Why Does Finding Peace When Confused Feel So Hard?
There’s something about not knowing that rattles us. I have felt it in my bones—the urge to grasp for understanding, to wrestle with God for a straight answer. And sometimes, I get silence instead. Or maybe just a nudge, not a plan.
In our recent podcast episode, I looked back at stories from women who trusted God in seasons of the unknown. We all want the roadmap, but God rarely sends one. What surprised me (and maybe you too) is that finding peace when confused isn’t about getting clarity first. It’s about trusting that God is good, even in the fog.
Can I tell you something? Some of my most peaceful moments haven’t come when everything made sense. They came when I let go of needing all the answers and just decided to be present, believing God was already at work, even if I couldn’t see the outcome.
What Does the Bible Say About Finding Peace When Confused?
I love how Scripture meets us right there in the messy middle. In the book of Isaiah, God says, "You will keep the mind that is dependent on you in perfect peace, for it is trusting in you" (Isaiah 26:3 CSB). I go back to that verse again and again because it speaks so plainly. Peace is not tied to clarity or control. It’s tied to dependence on Him.
Maybe you’re waiting for a job, praying for a child, or making daily decisions that matter for your family but don’t make sense right now. You can still find peace when confused because peace doesn’t depend on how tidy your life looks.
How Can I Practice Trusting God in Uncertainty?
Let me walk with you through a few things I’ve learned. None of these are formulas, just real steps that have helped me (and countless others who’ve shared their story with me).
1. Start With Small Obedience
I used to think trusting God required some grand gesture. Something big. But if there’s one thing this community has taught me, it’s that faith often grows in the tiny, unseen acts of saying yes in the fog. Saying yes to another day of showing up. Saying yes to waiting, to resting, to admitting I don’t see the whole path but I’m willing to keep walking.
2. Notice God in Simple Details
Sometimes when I can’t find peace, it helps me to look for tiny ways God is showing up. In the details. One of my favorite parts of the podcast is asking friends for a "fun fact" about themselves. It always reminds me that God delights in the little things, the details we forget, the ordinary moments. Finding peace when confused means keeping my eyes open to those everyday gifts rather than waiting for a big breakthrough.
- Look for gratitude in your day, even little ones (warm coffee, a kind word, a peaceful sunrise)
- Write down where you see God working, especially in subtle ways
- Pay attention to the way He meets you in community
3. Remember You’re Not Alone
This is not a solo act. So much of my own peace comes from knowing there are others walking through the fog, too. Whether it’s another mom, a friend in my small group, or a guest on the podcast—our collective faith strengthens each other. We don’t need to have it all figured out for God to work.
What Does Faithfulness Look Like When You’re Confused?
Sometimes faithfulness is just showing up. I have to remind myself, and you too, that faithfulness is not about perfect knowledge or impressive leaps. It’s about being present in the life you have, asking honest questions, and being open to God’s nudging.
Finding peace when confused can look like:
- Pausing to breathe before reacting
- Letting yourself rest without shame
- Saying yes to help from others
- Setting a small boundary when you’re overwhelmed
- Praying even when your words are jumbled
Questions That Help When Answers Don’t Come
Sometimes we get stuck in confusion because we can’t see the fruit yet. If that’s you, try asking yourself one of these:
- Where have I seen God’s faithfulness before?
- What lesson might He be teaching me now?
- How has my faith shifted in the past season?
- Is there a next small step I could take today?
You don’t have to feel ready. You just need a willing heart.
How Finding Peace When Confused Changes Your Life
The more I practice this, the more I see that God multiplies the smallest steps. Starting this podcast didn’t make sense on paper. Plenty of moments felt foggy and confusing. But every week, God has shown that faithfulness multiplies, even when it’s small. Your story doesn’t have to be polished or complete. Your testimony is still being written.
I want to encourage you (hand to heart) to look for God in what feels unfinished or unclear. Peace is possible in the fog. Not because you earned it, but because God gives it. And when you share even a piece of what He’s doing in your life, you invite others to find peace too.
Let’s Practice This Together
Here’s a gentle challenge. This week, take a few minutes and write down one way you have seen God show up, even if it feels tiny. Let that be your reminder that He’s present. If you feel bold, share it with me. I would love to celebrate with you.
And if you’re longing to keep this conversation going, the podcast is here for you. We talk about real life faith and how to find peace when confused in all kinds of circumstances, from motherhood to new jobs to quiet waiting seasons. Each story matters, including yours.
What’s Next When You’re Ready for More Peace
If you want to go deeper into finding peace when confused, here are some simple actions to try:
- Pause and pray, even if you have no words. Just breathing and being honest with God is enough.
- Connect with a friend who listens well. Sometimes sharing your fog helps you find solid ground.
- Reflect on Isaiah 26:3. Write it on a post-it. Stick it where you’ll see it.
- Remember, you’re invited to be part of this community. Join us on the podcast or reach out if you want to share your story or need prayer.
Finding peace when confused doesn’t mean you never have questions. It just means you trust that God is already holding all the answers. He delights in walking alongside you, fog and all.
Thank you for being here. Thank you for looking for peace, even when it’s hard to find. I’m in this with you, and I can’t wait to hear what God is doing in your life too. Every step you take, no matter how small, matters.
If you haven’t already, listen to the latest episode. Let it encourage you as we continue living with hope, even when clarity feels far away. Remember, God is already at work, and that peace can meet you right where you are.
